This Selfish Heart of Mine


this selfish heart of mine


I’m constantly reminded by my friends and family that in order for me to love someone else, I have to be able to love myself first. To this day, I can’t seem to wrap my head around this particular advice. Nevertheless, I decided to make this year all about me. My only New Year’s Resolution is to ultimately be selfish. 

Of course this process will take part by giving up five of these things that I believe is detrimental to my character:

1. Doubting myself
2. Negative thinking
3. Fear of failure
4. Negative self-talk
5. People pleasing

2015 has slammed me with a whole lot of unexpected twists and turns. Some bittersweet, others tragic, and many events that’s been… Interesting. I have a feeling that this year is going to be one of my most difficult years yet, but I know that I’m strong enough to battle my demons. 


Follow the house on  Bloglovin‘ | Facebook | Instagram | Google + | Snapchat

5 comments


  1. this selfish heart of mine

    That's a good new years resolution! I feel like that should be mine as well, because I can't wrap my mind around that piece of advice either.

    Good luck!

    Breakfast at Gracey's

    ReplyDelete

  2. this selfish heart of mine

    Sounds like a wonderful resolution, all those things can be challenging but it sounds like you're going to have such a positive year by focusing on you!

    ReplyDelete

  3. this selfish heart of mine

    These are wonderful resolutions…very insightful! Wishing you a great 2016! 🙂

    http://roadesque.com
    http://ourruins.com

    ReplyDelete

  4. this selfish heart of mine

    That is a great resolution.. sometimes we all need to be a little selfish

    ReplyDelete

  5. this selfish heart of mine

    You look amazing 🙂
    please follow my blog : THE COLORFUL THOUGHTS

    ReplyDelete

Thank you for your comment!